Understanding why my mother sent me to America was not the easiest thing. It felt as though she didn't want me anymore. As I grew up I understood that it was out of love, not abandonment. Sometimes in life you have to make very hard decisions and sending your child from Haiti, a country that wasn’t quite as developed, to America was one of the harder ones. People are shaped by parents, experiences, working hard.
I can still feel the tears that dripped down my face as I left my mother’s arms and see the pain in my mother’s eyes as our hands reached out, but never touched when I got on the plane. Eight years the thirteen year old me was whole new chapter in my story. My mother gave me a better life. In those years I gained a lot, such as a new mother who loved me and my father who would die for me, along with 3 older siblings which came with a one sided benefit of being taken place to place. I can’t complain and of course, life isn’t easy and sometimes bad times can overshadow the good ones. …show more content…
Hanging around negative people was the effect of all my poor decisions. Without having the love for myself I didn’t care about how my decisions would impact my character and how it only showed that I had hate for myself. Now in high school I have grown into the smart women that I view myself as today. Shaped by my experiences I was able to step out of my comfort zone and start a Teens with Faith club. Taking a stand on what I believed in, this was one of my greatest achievements. It went running for a moment and was one of the hardest experience that I had in high school. Along with that I joined the key Club where I did community service that helped build my character and values on helping others. Joining track for one season and trying out for tennis was all the activities that I participated in to step out of my comfort