20 Signs Your Partner Is Controlling

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Turning the other side, emotional abuse is not always due to true love. It surprisingly could be for fake love. A dishonest relationship exist because one of the spouses would like to either gain money or simply just for personal gain. Corrupting is a type of emotional abuse that has no goal, not at least emotionally. It has nothing to do with both spouses in working on communication. This type of emotion is usually upon one person who is only focused on themselves rather than both people.According to the source, Rebuilding You, it explained a quick definition of the word corrupting, “Corrupting is a form of emotional abuse in which an adult or older child encourages a younger child, who doesn’t yet fully understand the concepts of right or …show more content…
Trust is a tool that could lead in controlling your spouse for the needs of your own. The article, 20 Signs Your Partner Is Controlling, by, Andrea Bonior, spoke about the possibilities that your partner could be taking your power, “Many controlling people are skilled manipulators at making their partner's own emotions work in the controlling person's favor. If they can manipulate their partners into feeling a steady stream of guilt about everyday goings-on, then a lot of the controlling person's work is done for them—their partners will gradually try to do whatever they can to not have to feel guilt”(Bonior.) A human being has the capacity to avoid most of their emotions in order to survive for their own reason. In a emotional abusive relationship it is much more difficult to understand whether or not your spouse is in love with you or not. It is hard to believe the lies from the truth after having problems in the past, that you have not let go of. Having someone you loved strip your control away because you trusted the with your heart is as painful as physically getting punched in the face …show more content…
They are all similar because they all target their victims for what shows in the outside. They look at someone who they are attracted to and destroy their life within minutes. Nothing would be the same, their memory would not be erased of that day. The struggles they tried to get out of an abusive relationship, the challenges they had to face to protect not only themselves but the people closest to them. The victims carry the scars around them wherever they go catching people's eyes, and making others judge you without even knowing your story. Physical abuse is not only about the bruises, but the story behind them, the reason they stay in that toxic relationship, the reason they decide to be the target. Comparing physical abuse to emotional abuse, there is a difference that is not very clear to the eye. Emotions is the abuse, while we are the victim. All the emotions we create follows through with more and more thoughts that would then leads to a dark hole to where it is almost impossible to climb our way out. Emotional abuse is has not much difference to physical abuse if you compare them to pain tolerance. Although we cannot see the bruises running throughout or skin, we bottle the anger and other emotions that follow to keep our story untold for a reason. There are many possibilities that we could decide to keep quiet, from being in love and not risking the chance of breaking apart, to