In “The Lame Shall Enter First,” Rufus harshly disrespects his caretaker, Shepard. Even though Shepard is giving him a place to stay, food, and many non-necessities, Rufus shows no appreciation and torments him every chance he gets. When Rufus and Norton are discussing Shepard, Rufus claims, “He don’t know his left hand from his right” (O’Connor 341). While Shepard is so involved in trying to please Rufus, he almost completely forgets about his own son who had been the one to stand up for him. In “A Good Man is Hard to Find,” the children disrespect their elders, strangers, and even their home state. John Wesley complains, “Tennessee is just a hillbilly dumping ground… and Georgia is a lousy state too” (O’Connor 325). The children, along with their parents, disrespect the grandma as well. They ignore her claim that taking a trip to Florida would be unsafe and go anyways. If they would have paid better attention to the grandma they could have avoided this huge