With my son since he was a little boy all I ever had to do was call him by his name in a certain kind of tone and just look at him and he knew he had to stop whatever he was doing. Just the other day I was at the park with my son playing basketball, I took a break while I was drinking water I saw my son push another child so I ran over there and ask him what was going on. After all that a man came over and ask me are you his mom and I said yes I am he said you look like his sister but the way you reprimanded him I knew you had to be his mother. This is one way language reveals power and