An observation I have made is with my mom with her job that she has had for years. She has no love for it but it gets the bills paid and allows us to live more comfortably. My mom sacrifices her happiness to look good on her résumé, she chooses her duty over her passion. A personal experience I have had are my school decisions when I have had to do certain classes to be considered for the colleges I want to go to. I choose these classes to look better than other students so I have a higher chance of getting in, I rarely choose the classes that I actually want to take. That is living for a résumé instead of a eulogy, you are doing things you do not necessarily want to