Arguments
Most men argue with a sense of boldness and confrontation. They aren’t afraid to say what’s on their mind, therefore which makes them seem careless in some women’s opinions. They argue with impulse, not thinking before they speak. Most of this comes from the fact that men aren’t afraid to be upfront with someone, even if it stings a little when he says it. After a while of tedious arguing, some guys would stop giving feedback, as a way of shutting down.
Women on the other hand, they keep it all bottled up until they have a chance to talk about it behind their guy’s backs, in which she pours out all of her emotions and confusion to her friends/family. Women often ask for advice instead of going forth with an original plan, as if they need approval before they send something that would “hurt their feelings”. Girls like to reread what they are about to send, just to make sure that it’s nothing that would cause more trouble than what’s already happened. This makes them more vulnerable to being hurt by someone.
Women argue with emotion, while men argue from impulse. For example, a girl argues when she feels upset, but a man argues when something actually happens. If he doesn’t notice her new haircut, or when she gets a new outfit, she feels sad. She feels like he doesn’t care that she’s trying to impress him. A woman really gets her self confidence from how she dresses and how she does her makeup, and feelings are hurt because it’s not the same way for men.
Men are careless when it comes to getting ready for the day in the morning, or dressing up for a formal event. Women take hours, figuring out what they’re going to wear, and putting on their make up just right. Men usually wake up, shower, shave, and smell their clothes to see if they’re clean, then throw them on and walk out the door. Men have very little necessities, and that’s part of the reason why most don’t understand why girls get so upset about little things like vanities.
The thing that’s most commonly used when men argue, they like to blame everyone else but themselves. When a girl finds out that their guy has done something wrong, and they confront them about it, they’ll most likely say something like “What! That’s crazy! That wasn’t me; I can’t believe that they would say that I did that when they were the one that did it!” They will not change their standpoint on the argument even if it’s wrong. They will always try to blame someone for their mistakes, no matter who it is or what they have or haven’t done.
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