Let me just put this right out there, adoption is a lot of work especially older kids who have already had their foundation laid. It’s a lot of work for the parents, the children, and even the family of the adopting parents especially when you are adopting previous relatives. My mom has said, “When you adopt older children and especially a large sibling group, they have their own rules, likes and dislikes, and all of a sudden they …show more content…
When my cousins came to live with me we had to buy bunk beds, a new wardrobe for each of the kids, and school supplies along with so many other things. Adoption is a process that cannot be thrown together on a whim without causing chaos; adoption should be something that is planned out. When I asked my mom what she thought about the living expenses of adoption she answered with two words “a lot”. Even though adopting children is a lot of work and costs a lot, both my mom and I agree that it is definitely worth