After becoming an outsider to that group, I realized while being friends with them I acted like them and was a bad person, they’ve given me insight on how to better myself and be a better person. Now moving on to being an outsider at my job over the summer, I worked at the St. Clair Shores Pool and as soon as I got there, I knew I wasn’t gonna be an insider in that group, it felt like 7th grade all over again if I’m being real. The majority of the people I was around were lifeguards and I was basically the pool janitor, just that dynamic was wicked. We all had to share the same break room, and everyone seemed to get along really well with each other, but me. There was this one time that a lifeguard came up to me and told me to open my mouth because he wanted to feed me a grape, I was really uncomfortable, but he wouldn’t leave me alone unless I did, so I did. I later tried to bring this up to some of the other girls I worked with, and express that it’s weird and he shouldn’t be doing that, they told me that’s just how he