In Susan Faludi’s essay, the Cadet’s are thought to be serious and masculine by the media. But, the media again neglects to look at the local stories that make up the Citadel. The Cadet’s get so close here that they all unconsciously act in feminine ways and do female tasks. In Faludi’s essay a man named
Rembert explains, “its like a true marriage. There’s an affectionate intimacy that you will find between Cadets. With this security, they can without being defensive, project tenderness to each other” (97). By actually listening to a Cadet at the Citadel, it becomes obvious what really goes on at this school. Understanding what the Cadets truly do at this institution makes it clear what their true personalities are. Although, they are perceived by the media as tough and non-intimate, they are quite the opposite when actually listening to small