The way one takes care of the problems a monster causes, determines whether a positive or negative outcome takes place. Blaming others, which is what most do, results in negative outcomes because nothing is done about the monster. Blaming others puts the blamer into the victim role. This tactic for defeating a monster means one is accusing the monster for controlling their life, and giving their power away to the monster. By blaming others nothing is resolved and the monster continues to terrorize without resistance. In Beowulf, this worked because blaming Grendel for the destruction caused them to join forces to destroy him. This is a rare case where blaming others actually worked. Need facts and quotes. The second major way to take care
