I judge with just a glance as a reason to keep myself guarded from the unknown, especially when it comes to strangers and meeting new people. This reminded me of how my friendships have a very strong influence on me as well. We are all very caring and supportive of each other and I don't know what I would do without them in my life. This is a good example of Think About Dr. King and how, “we are not helpless in the face of our first impressions” (Gladwell 96). When I was finally able to open up and let more people into my life, I was very self-conscious about what other people would think of me. It was my unconsciousness again that would just assume a person didn't like me based on something about me and that I couldn't fully be myself. After some time I finally realized that I was the one in control and that I could positively use thin-slicing “ by changing the experiences that comprise those impressions” (Gladwell 97). Just realizing that I had control, benefited me and helped me meet the amazing friends I have who truly understand me. Because of this, I've been able to open up more around people. This has allowed me to make amazing connections with