Like Denby I believe that children are using pop culture and media to get their questions answered instead of asking their parents. Parents went from being helpful life mentors to being stand by relatives. If you see children now, most of them are nothing like their parents. Children don’t common life goal as their parents instead they have different and conflicting views on issues. Pop culture and media usually portray popularity, money, sex and drugs. Those issues are not life goals, they are steps to failure because children are not put to have the right mind set of being successful and do not understand the work it takes to be successful. Most Parents have the knowledge on how to be successful, but they cannot get their children’s attention because pop culture and media already have control over them by the time children reach adulthood. About three years ago, I had a friend who was obsessed with rap music and violent TV shows about gangs. He used rap music as a guideline to life and began associating with the wrong crowd because they shared a common interest: rap and violence. After a couple months, he changed and began to only worry about money and having sex with girls, consequently he began to fail school and was never home. His parents could not get through to him because he already replaced their morals with morals he learned from the media and on the streets. Parents aren’t raising their children anymore but