Another commonly discussed psychological process involving media violence is desensitization. Desensitization is the diminished emotional responsiveness to a negative or aversive stimulus after repeated exposure to it. Children under seven years of age have a hard time distinguishing between fantasy and reality. When young children see somebody stabbed, shot, raped, tortured, or murdered on television, to them it is as though it were actually happening. They use what they have learned from a fictional show about good guys and bad guys and about weapons and fighting to interpret something they hear about real-world violence. (Waheed) Imagine having a child under seven watch a “splatter” movie/show, learning to relate to and ‘connect’ with a character for the first part of the movie/show and then in the last part watch vulnerably as that new ‘friend’ is hunted down and brutally murdered. To the child, this is the psychological equivalent of letting a child play with a friend that was recently introduced to them, and then severely hurting the friend right in front of the child. Age eight is usually the age in which children can differentiate fantasy and reality. Experts call this turning point the “age of reason”. (Glicken) Although children this age grasp the concept of special effects, their brains are still not mature enough to handle realistic depictions of violence. They do not make logical casual connections. Children focus on the action and excitement of the fighting. Also, they only focus on one aspect at a time, and not the big picture. Children’s thinking is more like a series of separate slides rather than like a movie or a show. They do not look at the whole picture- like the context for the fighting, why there is fighting and what may be the potential outcomes. While watching violence, children focus on the dramatic, concrete aspects of the situation- not the more abstract concepts underlying the problem. The fighting and the weapons are what children are fascinated by, not the fundamental issue in the story being told. Television is a form of media that surrounds us in our everyday lives. There are televisions everywhere; in our homes, restaurants, waiting rooms, etc. With thousands of channels, commercials and the “On Demand” feature, children are bound to be