Okonkow’s father was not a respected man because he did not have money and was in dept for so many people, he was also known to be lazy, and not a hardworking man, for this reason he was being called a woman, and had no title. The fact that Okonkwo’s father was an unsuccessful man, made Okonkwo hate everything his father used to do, such as being lazy, not working, and sleeping for a long time. This caused Okonkwo to be challenged to act more manly, and work harder than anyone, so he can prove that he is a man and not like his father. This flashback that Okonkwo gets makes him act tougher, as well as working harder. This is why men are challenged to prove their powers and abilities because otherwise they will get insulted and get to be called women. Moreover, working hard is very important in order to get a title and be a wealthy and a respected man among the people in the Igbo