Dedé lives in her old house to avoid the harsh reality of the revolution, so she can still have the favorable memories of when her sisters were there. Her memories allow her to cope with her grief as she says, “I stop in the dark depths of the garden … I see the house as I saw it once or twice as a child … the windows lighted up, glowing with lived life … a magic place of memory and desire. And quickly I head back, a moth attracted to that marvelous light” (Alvarez 319). The light reminds her of the good times before her sisters die and the attraction is her attempt to relive those moments. She demonstrates that the positive memories are important because they bring her back to the life she once had. Light can improve a bad situation; Dedé uses it to “distract her mind and fortify her spirit” (Alvarez 198). Even though it is normal to think of the negatives, memory is important because it will distract from the sorrow and emphasize the wonders of life. Good memories can strengthen the person and mend their