He struggled and suffered with the marlin for about three days. His first act of suffering (physically) was when he was trying to bring the marlin up on the boat. Another way he was hurt (emotionally) was by the words of the other fisherman. They told him he couldn’t and that he should give up, but mind told him to not listen to what they had to say and just keep on going. My interviewee was in a similar situation. She raised two kids mostly on her own after getting a divorce and moving to Virginia. She’s struggled with bills and people telling her she couldn’t reach her dreams. But, yet she did, she may not have gotten all the way there, but at least she graduated and got her diploma and is starting to accelerate in pharmacy/pharmacy tech. I’ve learned from her that even with struggle and suffering, you’ll always make it