The mother experiences power in two different forms, good and bad. When the mother endured a separation from her husband it enabled her to gain power over the household. Once the power was established, the mother accustomed phases of stress. Gaining power resulted in the mother becoming unsure of her ability to run the household. This power eventually became vigorous when she discovered how to handle and do things her husband used to do. This resulted in Lincolnites addresses power through male and female roles. In this story, power is placed in Lily’s hands more than once. The power switches between Lily and the confederate soldier. In the beginning, Lily has power over her household in the aspect that her husband is gone for the war and she was in charge of the children. The confederate solider that visits her land establishes power over Lily and her family when he demands her to give up the horse and chickens. Towards the end of the story, Lily retains the power back whenever she kills the confederate