In 62, she says she “will not endure an affair in which I am older than the man” (62). However, I am not sure that Sappho is happy that she fell in love with a man/boy. In poem/fragment 36, Sappho says “slender Aphrodite has made me fall in love with a boy” (36). When “made me” is used, it suggests that the person speaking is not necessarily happy about what has happened. She also alludes to confusion on this matter in 41 when she says “I do not know what to do, I am of two minds” (41). While this could mean multiple things, I cannot help but feel she is confused as to whether she prefers men or women. There is also a lack of specificity to gender in poem/fragments 27, 28, 38, and 71, but all of them have a sexual connotation, if not a rather clear sexually proposition message as found in 27, and 28. It would just be a question as to who she is propositioning, which I think is further support for her confusion in her sexual