The vernacular of this term is derogatory in the sense it is a way to judge someone. It's value to one person varies from the next considering everyone thinks they understand the extremity of it. Yet once the deed is done, they are no longer innocent no longer a child. I believe that word doesn't make a boy or a man nor a girl a woman it makes us human. It makes us fall into a temptation that is simply human nature not the Devil's doing. You may think I'm promiscuous or cliché for picking this topic nonetheless one I know nothing of. But I have seen it wreck people, destroy people. I don't want to delve into the details of the speculation, but the concept of the matter. Rape is often times not reported, and if and when it is, it doesn't change …show more content… Or would you make sure no one could see or hear you to spare yourself the embarrassment? Why do we allow a word to dictate what type of person someone is? "If you can control the meaning of words, you can control the people who must use the words." (Dick, Phillip K. "How to Bold a Universe That Doesn't Fall Apart Two Days Later." I Hope I Shall Arrive Soon. Doubleday, 1985. 8. Print.) I find this entirely relevant to this topic. The aforementioned dictation of stereotyping allowed by this word is just as much the same as the stated quote. Allowing this word to control another and or tell them who they are. Again with the damaged goods we allow this feeling to be brought upon someone. We have let this word become something it's not. It's all natural. we are all natural. We all know how we came to be. The idea of sex has been personified in the sense he can walk into your life and rough it up a bit. That it can consume and control you. With or without consent, it being sex, is a decision. Am I this or am I that, do I want to give all of myself to this person or give it to someone better? Granted not everyone views it this way, but this is the truth, I viewed this with my own eyes how this one decision can betray a heart, break a soul, and ruin a Show More
