Rather then attempt to try and make themselves feel better, many people will anchor themselves to their pain and suffering, whether it be the fear of change (“Stick with the devil you know”) or to gain sympathy others. When offered help, or when an intervention from a friend or family member is made, these people chain themselves even tighter to their suffering. People will tell themselves just about anything to avoid facing the fact that they're just plunging the knife of unhappiness further into