Yet in this time of datings evolution divorce rates have went up. I meet more often those who are in their second or third marriage then those who have stayed true to their first vows. {reference numbers} Numbers dont lie but can be misrepresented. Yet we see that divorce is a problem now more then in days of arranged marriages and courtship. The causes for divorce are most often financial, yet {quote reference here} it was said if a person or family had a houshold income of over 34000 a year they were in the top 1% income earnings of the planet earth. How is financial a problem in a nation that is blessed beyond any in history with