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After conducting a significant amount of research on the topic of conflict within couples, Gottman introduced four qualities of negative interactions that he called the Four Horsemen of The Apocalypse. These four communication behaviors- contempt, criticism, defensiveness, and withdrawal- create a very negative environment. Throughout the documentary, there were multiple instances where Stephanie criticized Joe’s lack of involvement, with comments such as “if you keep sitting down we’re going to have a problem” and “he appears to be helping, but... he falls a little short sometimes.” She frequently criticizes his behaviors, but her critiques are usually vague, rather than direct and clear, which would produce better results. While conflict is inevitable within a partnership, the way she expresses her frustrations does not help to rectify the situation. Stephanie exhibits a lot of criticism and even some contempt, even though Joe feels like he helps out a fair amount, and does not like being constantly