Transeu explains that, " if someone gave me the news that I give them, I would simply perish, explode, cease to exist...I’m endlessly amazed to discover, over and over, the strength that people have; their ability to muster coping mechanisms, their ways of managing and going on, surviving the moment” (On Call, 108). She is right; it really is amazing how people find their own ways of coping with such loss. However, it doesn't exactly help the situation when the physician delivering the bad news is cold, detached, monotone even. I assume it would only cause the family/ loved ones to believe that the doctors didn't really do "all they could do" to save their loved one, or that they simply didn't care enough. This brings me to a vignette Dr. Transeu illustrates later in chapter 19, when she is working with her attending Dr. Ellen for a patient, Yvonne. Dr. Ellen says, “You have to get emotionally invested ...It’s the only way to be a doctor” (On Call, 130). This seems to be the only advice on balancing emotion in a medical setting so