You are walking down the halls and immediately lock eyes with the female you have been crushing on since the 3rd grade. The difference between your 3rd grade year and now is immaculate. Instead of thinking a girl is cute, feelings arise that you have never felt before: literally. In order to contact this beautiful creature, sadly, one must strike up a simple conversation. With a stuttering problem always in your back pocket, this simple introduction could go one of two ways. On one hand, obviously, with baskets of self-confidence grasped in your arms, the initial a wish involves the female thinking your speech problem is utterly cute. On the other hand, this beauty finds you hideous, and slams the door on you before a knock is even …show more content…
With this being said the initial conference goes quite well. Throughout the conversation the casual stammers arise, and the meeting perceives to be just like any other conversation. However, the next conference with your new buddy is the interesting one. This is solely because deep inside your sole, the evidence supports itself that you will continue stuttering during the conversation. During this moment, your new buddy spits words out like an ATM coughs up cash. You on the other hand make yourself appear like a perpetual fool. In order to successfully converse, a stutterer must form confidence in their speech, and not worry about how others perceive you. In reality, the only person that has the right to judge is yourself, and with that being said, the deeds you are a part of are definitely more important that a litter stutter here and there. Through Hoagland’s essay, he preaches that even with a problem involving your speech, dealing with it is the only possible way to sustain a happy lifestyle. Even though a speech impediment such as a stuttering problem can diminish one’s personal self confidence, finding a way to deal with with this damaging problem is a major key to happiness. Thankfully, some women find this dooming enemy somewhat attractive, and they perceive a person for their true self instead of judging them simply on how they