Yet, the author does not adhere to the rules intended to be imposed upon women, particularly mothers, when it comes to their own desire. Instead, she instructs the men in her life, her sons, that they are to remove themselves from their home should their mother’s lover intend to call over. Ernaux is dismantling the long-established myth that mothers no longer feel sexual desire, and creating an important representation of how women and mothers can be and can live, separate from the conventional expectations required of them. The mother playing the role of caretaker without any sexual desire has been cast out, and replaced with the mother who is a woman, and who experiences desire independent of any social