Situational factors can trigger spontaneous self-concepts in people that run counter to the independent self or interdependent self fostered by their culture (Kühnen et al., 2001; Kühnen & Oyserman, 2002).” In my point of view, this subject relates with nurture issue, not nature one, I mean that the style a raising a child and child’s experiences. My parents has fostered me as possible as qualified. They always said, “Each thing that you have learned is bracelet to your arm.” Ultimately, I have some knowledge about both sports and musical instruments. What my family emphasized to me when I was growing up is the most important thing is improving myself but at the same time I should be careful about balancing with self-esteem. In addition to this, my parents’ expectation regarding marriage is also in this direction. Their only condition about it is my financial and educational situation in order to stand on my own