One of the major reasons Ellen is alienated is due to the fact she will not go back to her husband. The fact everyone would rather have her in a failing relationship instead of her being separated shows they are a patriarchal society with unspoken expectations. Another example of the importance of gender roles is shown when Janey says “It’s odd… that she should have kept such an ugly name as #Ellen. I should have changed it to Elaine” (34). This helps to characterize gender roles and literary theories because it discusses the idea the role of a woman characterizes itself with characteristics of being unintelligent and being unable to decide things for themselves. Because Ellen is alienated even for the way her name sounds, the importance of gender roles in society is