"And then his girlfriend came. Lois I heard him call her. She is tiny and pretty and smells like baby's skin. […] She's got big girl hands, and her bones are long like ladies' bones, and she wears makeup too. But she doesn't know how to tie her shoes. I do" (Cisneros 28). In the quote Esperanza realizes good looks isn't everything as she compares her self to Lois she realizes just because Lois is prettier it doesn't make her more feminine and just because Esperanza is smarter it doesn't make her any less feminine they are equal just on different ways. "In the movies there is always one with red red lips who is beautiful and cruel. She is the one who drives the men crazy and laughs them all away. Her power is her own. She will not give it away" (Cisneros 35). Esperanza's thinks there is only one way to live life be beautiful because that's how all the women around her act but none of them have enough self strength to tell the men what there doing is wrong a example of this is Sally and her