How would you tweak this approach in a counseling session with two people in the room? Also, it seemed that the class was helpful for the approach taken with S. I’m not going to have sessions that involved 9 other people, so I am curious how to do these one-on-one. Both demonstrations were useful to me, but they are approaches that are unfamiliar to me. I have experience working with people who have internalized oppression; however, the approach I used was much different. It involved empowerment and re-writing of personal narratives, but it ultimately got to the same result. During my previous work, I had the great honor to witness several woman regain their voice and power. I’m interested in having more tools in my toolbox, but I just need to get a better grasp on …show more content…
I still have a lot of shame around SES to unpack, but I am putting in the work to get me closer to a more accepting place. Plus, getting over the idea that I am ‘too much’ has been on my mind quite a bit. I know I still have a lot of personal work to do in this area, and it is not easy, but I’m intentional. The fact that I am even actively dating is a risk. It can be considered a risk for anyone, but I have a lot to disclose to a potential partner. Last week, I disclosed me HIV status when I was on a date. It was the first time I have disclosed to someone on a date in several years. It was terrifying. I’ve been positive for 15 years, have disclosed and spoke publicly countless times, but dating & disclosure always leaves me feeling like my heart will literally jump out of my chest. However, I did it last week. Not only that, but the guy I disclosed to ended up calling me the next day to express his interest in seeing me again. I’m casually dating at this point, but I cannot express the weight that is released once I put that information out there. The problem for me is that I end up feeling grateful that my status was accepted. My worth does not depend on whether or not someone accepts my HIV status or not, but I do always feel a sense of gratitude. Rejection is a possible reality for anyone who is dating, but I do have some discomfort