Victor did not teach him kindness, or how to save someone without being told. He saved the girl because that's how he wanted to be treated, not because he was told it was the right thing to do. After that it became clear that the monsters experiences changed him for the worse, because he started treating other people how they have been treating him. Another way of expressing not all traits come from parents is what some people may call the “gay gene.” A person’s sexuallity preferance does not depend on what they have been taught by the parents. They have no control whether their son or daughter likes the same gender as them. Its up to them to decide who they like or dislike, or who they are attracted to, that’s just them coming from their own mind, because of their own experiences. Being wealthy, or social don’t come from parents either unless there is a family legacy involved. Experience with people and how one is to act around people because of their experiences is the way they grow up to be. It’s their life choice and they are in