Jacob's expresses how, "Mrs. Bruce, and every member of her family, were exceedingly kind to me."(Jacob 256). She valued and cherished each of her friendships and I could tell, by the way she would talk about them and how much she appreciated them. Linda was someone she could confide in, she explains how she, "longed for someone to confide in. I would have given the world to have laid my head on my grandmother’s faithful bosom, and told her all my troubles. But Dr. Flint swore that he would kill me, if I was not as silent as the grave." (Jacob 232), friendship was difficult during the time of slavery because they were not really allowed to talk but she made it work either way. Douglass valued his friendships but during his time of trying to be free he realized that he had to do what was best for him. Jacob's valued her friendships and she expresses in her novel that it is important to keep people close to you because you never know how they could help you in the long