However, Kothari learn to accept American food and the way to eat it, and at the same time keep some of her heritage culture. Geeta Kothari express:
Now I worry that this antipathy toward dal signals something deeper, that somehow I am not my parents’ daughter, not Indian, and because I cannot bear the touch and smell of raw meat, though I can eat it cooked (charred, dry, and overdone), I am not American either. (951)
Today, someone living in a multicultural civilization and respecting the way that many people live is the meaning of living in the border among cultures. However, People usually acquire other cultures making a whole new being of themselves, and the mix of two cultures lead to a change of cultural identity or what it is known as multicultural way of living. In addition, this one will ending up gaining knowledge of the culture he or she is living on and at the same time saving the actual heritage culture, and this will lose some customs and traditions from one culture and another and to just take the most important from both. Geeta Kothari