Personally, I know that I started out in this stage, where I was self-centered but eventually learned that others have thoughts and feelings that were important too. I also have seen this occur in the two young girls that I babysit over the summer. When I first started watching over them, they both always wanted to have everything their way. Now, they are both learning to put others first. This resonates with me because I have not only seen these stages of moral development in myself, but also with the young girls. Since I am a girl, I think that it may be easier to relate to Gilligan's theory of moral development. However, I do find some aspects of Kholberg's views to also be a part of my