On the other hand, Orr expresses his personal satisfaction by returning to Hayneville and being proud that he survived his violent ordeal. Living in a capitalist society forces the individual to make sacrifices for personal gain, which can be disruptive for family life. Violence doesn’t have to be something physical, like in Orr’s case but can be emotional which is displayed in Hochschild article. In a sense, when faced in particular situations, the way an individual deals with it can alter their life and those around them. Providing for a family is crucial and can force an individual to make sacrifices. A major sacrifice of this is spending less time with the family. Hochschild defines capitalism as “a cultural as well as an economic system that the symbols and rituals of this cultural system compete with, the symbols and rituals of community and family” (187). Hochschild believes that capitalism is something people follow in order to live and survive financially, and that type of living competes with spending time with