He realizes this when the Ghost Of Christmas Present shows him Fred and his dinner party mocking Scrooge. "I am sorry for him, I couldn't be angry with him if I tried" (Dickens 360). Scrooge understands that he isn't hurting Fred by not attending Christmas dinner, but he is hurting himself by ruining that relationship. Fred is not haunted by the fact that Scrooge does not want to talk to him, nonetheless he tries to reach out but Scrooge just shuts him out. Scrooge also is haunted by how he treated Mr. Cratchit. "Let me hear another sound from you, and you'll keep your Christmas by losing your situation" (Dickens 309). He is haunted by how he treated Bob before he knew what his family was like. He is struggling to support them, and on top of it all his sickly son is dying. Scrooge makes mistakes that will cost him his relationships if he does not fix