It took a change when I wanted something else or when I had talks with my dad about him never teaching me how to play I had to learn on my own or cousin teaching me. I think once I got older telling him that if he taught me when I was little I wouldn't be just a average player. I could be someone great as I begin to realize I couldn't take on his shoes, they were filled because that's all he knew how to do. With my area i could be better than him in things like I knew my dad couldn't shoot like me . Still, today I love the game of basketball it actually kind of grew on me I'm better now then I was in basketball in middle and high school. I try to pick match wit my pops on who is better.But all this to say you don't have to take the same route as your parents did you can create your on route and keep it