In the war he helped the general find ways around Mexican fortifications or find ways to capture them. After the Mexican war ended, he resigned from the military and went to work at his plantation. He was offered to lead the union army by President Abraham Lincoln but he declined. “What a cruel thing war is to fill our hearts with hatred instead of love for our neighbors,” Robert E. Lee. This quote from Robert E. Lee shows how much he dislikes war, and how reluctant he was to pick a side. He was forced to though, when Virginia seceded from the Union and joined the war with the Confederates. Robert could not bear thinking about fighting against the people from Virginia so he sided with