Allen’s poem shows the destructiveness of loss and how coping with it is difficult and such as an individual's use of understanding that if someone tries and just not giving to them sadness instead they understand and recognise what occurred they do not live in that moment they can overcome it. The Raven only demonstrates one side of grief in that the individual cannot stop thinking about the events that occurred instead of going on even though it is difficult the other side of grief is happiness. Therefore, the use of memories of old moment better days are used to go back or become levelled but they are not to be idled on but should be used in order to go through the times of great strife to reassure one’s self that things can get