King Claudius seemed to be very unsympathetic towards Hamlet’s unending grief. He began his speech by explaining to Hamlet that it was “sweet and commendable in [his] nature…/ to [mourn for his] father” (1.2. 87-88), but Hamlet needed to “…know [that his] father lost a father, [and] that father lost” (1.2. 89-90). The first few lines of Claudius’s speech showed a little sign of a caring quality, but it was quickly covered up by his cold-hearted thoughts. He approached the topic of his brother’s death with Hamlet as nicely as possible. Claudius complemented Hamlet saying that is was sweet of him to grief for his father, but he really thought that Hamlet should move on from the grieving. Claudius wanted to make the death of his brother seem as if it were something Hamlet should be able to get over quickly. He needed Hamlet to stop grieving so that his grief would not remind the public of King Hamlet’s death. Matthew Harkins described Claudius’s options for Hamlet perfectly. Harkins wrote that “Claudius [claimed] Hamlet [was] no more than a youth. As such he has only two options: to be unruly or to be subordinate.” (par.21). King Claudius wanted for Hamlet to be subordinate and obey him and his mother. Claudius went on to say that the survivors of the dead have an obligation to grieve, but Hamlet’s grief was what he thought of as “unmanly grief” (1.2. 94). King Claudius thought that Hamlet was showing an intention that was “most incorrect to heaven” (1.2. 95). According to Claudius, Hamlet’s heart was weak and hurt and his mind was impatient. Claudius needed to try and get Hamlet to feel as if he should move on from his grieving stage. He then moved on to telling Hamlet that his obsessive grief was a crime against heaven, against the dead, and a crime against nature. King Claudius tried to convince Hamlet that he should “throw to earth/ [his] unprevailing woe…”