The right choices will enhance your quilt. The wrong choices will dull the colors and hide their original beauty. There are no rules you can follow. You have to go by instinct and you have to be brave” (American Quilt, 1995). Finn is at a crossroads in her life, but at last she makes a right choice and lives a happy life by the end of the film. She learns the lesson from the lives of the quilters which can help her in her efforts to define herself. Finn says “I have lost track of the sort of girl that I am. I used to be a young scholar; I am now an engaged woman. Not that you cannot be both—even I understand that—yet I cannot fathom who I think I am at this time” (American Quilt, 1995). Her grandmother’s quilting friends are trying to define her own place in the world, to master what marriage can be and the ways in which it may shape her life. Finn loves her fiancé Sam and her questions arise not from any doubts about her feelings for him but rather from a sense that she herself has. Finn has a scholar’s mind and she has an interest in the details that make up a human life. She also draws on both in her efforts to come to terms with the possibilities her future may