However, today language such as Spanish is being restrained to impose the assimilation of the American dominant language. In the story, How to Tame a Wild Tongue, Anzaldua states that her mother taught her Spanish as her first language. Now, usually, the first language is used to create a connection with the ones who raise you. Anzaldua grew up familiarizing herself with Mexican decent, giving her trouble in school when trying to learn English. “If you want to be American, speak American. If you don’t like it, go back to Mexico where you belong,” (Anzaldua 167) is what she was told at a young age when getting caught speaking Spanish during recess. Her mother had also told her to get rid it because it wouldn't allow for her to be successful in life. Anzaldua was confused, she started to question herself because she wasn't sure if she wanted to leave her Mexican decent behind. Her bilingualism gave her the opportunity to be prominent when compared to others, which is why her Mexican Spanish gave her a sense of