Aunt Alexandria is a proper southern lady who was very proud of her fine southern heritage. She is a gracious hostess who knows about proper etiquette and hospitality, and she delights in giving lavish parties to ladies of similar social status. Her form of hospitality is not as genuine or sincere as Jem’s, but it is certainty proper. “Her Missionary Society refreshments added to her reputation as a hostess… To all parties present and participating in the life of the county, Aunt Alexandria was one of the last of her kind:..”