Jaimito is very provincial, and expects Dede to follow suit with his beliefs, which are opposite the beliefs of the rest of the Mirabal sisters. They are trying to convince Dede to join the resistance, and Dede shows Jaimitos dominance by saying, “What if I can’t?’ Dede’s voice shook. “Jaimito thinks it’s suicide. He’s told me he’ll have to leave me if I get mixed up in this thing.’ There, she’d said it. Dede felt a hot flush of shame on her face. She was hiding behind her husband’s fears” (Alvarez, 179-180). The use of the word “suicide” has an extremely significant meaning, as it implies more than the dangers of being in the resistance. It refers to the life and death of their marriage, and her pre-conceived thought that she must adhere to Jaimito’s wishes in the marriage, due to her narrow self-awareness. Dede’s narrow self-awareness came from how she was raised, and from that a major life decision was made for her as she continued to go along with the stereotypical housewife