Interracial Marriage

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Ever since 1967 when the law was passed that anti-miscegenation laws unconstitutional, interracial marriages have been fully open to those willing to indulge in the opportunity. There has been many discussions about the differences in beliefs and race spreading to common events such as marriage. It has been constantly debated whether it should be seen as an exception or an important issue. Marrying someone of a different faith or race does not matter as long as the partners in the relationship are accepting of their differences,and are able to cope with their identities.

If the spouses of interracial/ interfaith marriage are accepting of their diverse backgrounds, then it should not matter to others if they get married. Hanes (2014) says,“He
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Root (2006) says“And beyond its benefits to racial tolerance, interracial marriage demands democracy, openness, and tolerance within families”( p.4). As the world becomes more aware, the tolerance expectations are set higher as they are faced with stereotypes and fight for the acceptance of others. Root (2006) states,“With more interracial contact has come less fear and more acceptance of the racial ‘other,’ and the ultimate form of acceptance is personal love and the marriage bond” ( p.1). Couples feel more open to show affection in the public eye knowing that there is some kind of mutual respect among the majority of society that gives them the push to stay in the relationship, and work out problems created by those who discriminate. This can keep the relationship going longer if they have a mutual understanding of how they deal with their differences, whether it be what religion the children practice, or what culture or language the children should learn. Some couples are able to work through it, but it does not always work …show more content…
Many families have different views and to them the importance of this matter greatly affects the future of the families growth. Some families are “pseudo-closed” meaning they sometimes take years to accept the concept of interracial marriage. They have the similarities of a monarchical family, show less tolerance to differences of an individual, and hold race as an important aspect of the image of the family(Roots,2006, p.2). In many cultures the approval of your family is very important when deciding to go into a marital status. Having the disapproval of your family, is compared to having the foundation of your values crumble under the overwhelming pressure to please them. However, it is becoming more accepting in society, and the rates of interracial and interfaith marriages are increasing each year. Society is becoming more accepting, meaning the time it takes for the families to accept the concept may come shorter than expected. The original power, given to families, to restrict the choice of spouse has been decreasing, for it is the reason that many more families are showing interracial diversity( Root, 2006). The families influence starts to decrease rapidly as society becomes more accepting of the differences in relationships. It becomes easier for the couple to accept themselves, and go through the hardships that come with being in a