he shared his feelings with his parents and they gave him wisdom. They told him that the majority of the people around him wouldn't be there if the money wasn't there. they went on to explain to him that to some people all they want to do in life is get by and if u let them they will, as long as you giving handouts you the man but when the cherody stops you a dog on the street to them and most of the time they wouldn't help you near as much as you would