Later Adulthood Research Paper

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Later Adulthood & Old Age The most important thing about my childhood was the lack of parenting done by my parents. Throughout my childhood, I was very focused on my physical appearance, which developed into some serious self-esteem, self-acceptance, and insecurities. The most important thing to me was to become skinny. I wish that I could have focused more on just being myself, enjoying what I had in the present, and not worrying or carrying so much about what I thought I should look like and what others thought of me. The major event that has changed my family is the death of my paternal grandmother. As discussed throughout this autobiography, this change resulted in the structural change in my family, the change of caretaker in my life, …show more content…
Right now, I accept my life but know that I still have time to fix things, accomplish things I haven’t yet, and can still develop new goals for my future. Acceptance of my life in my later adulthood will help me accept the fact I may not have accomplished everything I wanted in life and realizing what I can and cannot still try and achieve. I currently still have many goals that I need to achieve, but hopefully in my later adulthood, there won’t be so many goals I will feel I need to achieve. I hope that I will still want to develop new goals to achieve for those years to continue my personal development and level of life satisfaction. In my later adulthood I will be able to develop a greater sense of belonging because I will have lived for so many more years and given myself to many more people and things than I have …show more content…
I currently fear death because I feel that I haven’t lived my life enough and achieved many of the goals that I have for myself. However, by later adulthood I feel that I will, hopefully, have achieved many more of these goals and will reach a higher level of satisfaction within my life. I hope that I do not feel despair when developing an acceptance of my life.
I think that introspection will bring about a more thorough self-evaluation, which will allow me to look at and accept different life events and the role that they have played in my personality. At this stage in my life, introspection will be done on a deeper level because I will have many more years of my life to evaluate and reminisce on.
I think that the older I get the wiser I will become. I don’t think that I will be able to have wisdom on much of anything until I reach later adulthood. At this time in my life, I will actually be able to speak, with wisdom, about being a parent, what it was like to work as a MFT, how families function, how couples function, different issues that couples and families experience frequently, and how and what my own personal development and life experiences have taught me. Wisdom will help me to more thoroughly accept life and it’s complexity. I hope that I will never experience disdain. I hope at this point in my life that I will become less critical on myself and have a better sense of self-acceptance,