Frye defines the double bind as “situations in which options are reduced to a very few and all of them expose one to penalty, censure, or deprivation” (42). One example of the double bind is whether a woman has a “natural” pretty face. On one side, if the woman wears too much makeup others could classify her as a “try-hard” or naturally not pretty. On the other side, not wearing makeup at all could insinuate that the woman is “homely” or doesn’t take care of her appearance. When you face a double bind, “You can’t win. You are caught in a bind, caught between systemically related pressures” (Frye 43). A few years back, I had a personal experience that I didn’t realize was oppressive until I read Frye’s work. I was walking by myself in a grocery store and a man decided to block my path until I smiled for him. I did not owe that man a cheery disposition that day, nor do woman owe men anything else. The majority of people see this situation as If a man is not smiling, another man (and certainly not a woman) would not ask him to appear happier. Humans, especially Americans, are able to recognize racism as a problem only when it is seen as an event of the past. We, the dominant culture of whites, tell ourselves that we are better than institutionalized racism and that we do not participate in it at present time. However, the polls that Tim Wise gives in his speech “Racism, White Privilege,