In these societies it is tradition to give children to their aunts, and uncles to raise. Once the child is born they are given to the father’s sister, and brother-in-law which is the mothers brother. the mother gives birth she gives the newborn to her brothers family. In this society the gifts are the children and they carry a certain power called mana which can be spiritual, religious, or magical (Mauss, 8). Tonga is the term used interchangeably with the gift. The tonga can become poison, and destroy the receiver if they do not return favor to the giver (Mauss, 6). This is reciprocated and causes a circle of gift giving. A main part of gift giving is the obligation to give and to