Lennie and I were both pushed back and moved forward by looking forward to the future and looking back on memories. Doing so allowed us both to move on with our lives rather than dwell on the past and allows the memory of the dream to dominate our futures as well. We all have dreams, but many are impossible or unrealistic. At some point, we all will have to face the reality that we have to move on with our lives and leave behind our most treasured memories. So perhaps looking forward can help us understand whether our memories are their to kill us or save