Micro Counseling Skills

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I think the counselor demonstrated a sincere characteristic when talking to his client. He sounded genially concerned for his client, and expressed interest in what his client was going through. The counselor uses reflecting skills to make the client feel understood. By doing this the counselor is able to make the client understand that he is repeating his mothers pattern of perfection with his own children. We know that a reflective skill is one of paraphrasing and parroting the client (Cooper micro skills). This is the first step in fixing the problem. The counselor was charismatic when talking to his client at first read I thought he had made a mistake when he suggested brining in the client’s wife and stopping the session but as I reread …show more content…
I was thinking we could use your wife to help you see that you ARE worthy of love without perfectionism. But, maybe that was abrupt and jumping the gun a bit.(Steve Transcript)” I feel that the characteristics used buy the counselor were effective because it gave the client the ability to see what he was doing with his children and it made him understand that it was he who needed to work though his issues with his mother, and not take his frustrations out on his family. I also think the micro skills used were right on cue with what the counselor was trying to accomplish in the first meeting. We also see how the counselor used open ended questions to get his client talking this demonstrated a sense of confidence I think in the counselor because the seemed to really know what he was doing in the session, had we not known that it was his first session and he had just graduated two months prior then I would not have …show more content…
It seems that the counselor was not very self-disciplined which is one of the characteristics a counselor should have (Cooper page 165). Usually counselors are supposed to explain this to you before you even have a session so that you know that certain things are not privileged information. I wonder if the client had expressed a desire to harm himself or someone else how the counselor would have handled it because he had not explained to the client that an expressed desire to cause harm is something he can not keep to himself and must report it to the proper